Smart Selection-Understanding Natural Hypergamy

This journal is where you dismantle your old, surface-level understanding of attraction and step into a deeper, more grounded masculine standard…because if you’ve been relying on money, status, or external validation to attract women, you’ve been playing a game that keeps you stuck in shallow dynamics; you will confront how you’ve misunderstood hypergamy, where you’ve used material leverage to compensate for a lack of presence, and where you may have blamed women instead of taking ownership of the strategy you were operating from; from there, you will redefine attraction through the lens of natural hypergamy by identifying how your masculine presence already creates genuine pull—and where your mindset or behaviors still weaken it…then commit to embodying the traits, standards, and behaviors of a man who naturally evokes trust, desire, and polarity, without needing to rely on external displays, becoming someone a feminine woman is drawn to not for what you have, but for who you are.

1 (Reflection): Old Definition Of Hypergamy

Reflect on the ways you may have previously believed Hypergamy only existed in the form of Material Hypergamy, with women’s primary attraction and selection markers, coming from money, luxury, or financial status.

2 (Reflection): Utilizing Material Hypergamy

Being honest with yourself, reflect on how you may have played into these Material Hypergamy dynamics by relying on superficial methods to attract women—such as using money, travel, nice dinners, or luxurious experiences—and later finding yourself attracting women who are focused on surface-level value.

Notice where you may have blamed women rather than taking accountability for the dating strategy you were using.

3 (Reflection): Redefining Hypergamy

Now that you understand Natural Hypergamy, list 3 to 5 behaviors through which you already successfully create Natural Hypergamy via your Masculine Presence.

Then, list 3 to 5 behaviors through which you may sometimes weaken Natural Hypergamy due to an emasculated or overly feminized mindset and set of behaviors you previously held.

4 (Declaration): Utilizing Natural Hypergamy

Declare 5 to 8 new healthy masculine mindsets and behaviors you will embody going forward to create genuine Natural Hypergamy—where a feminine woman senses you as a trustworthy, grounded, powerful, influential, and attractive masculine leader she desires to open to, trust, care for, follow … and lose herself in passion with.